Hello Everyone,
I just want to share a quick thank you to those who visit this blog. Moving forward, all of my blog articles will be published here:
https://medium.com/@wellnessrf
Feel free to check out my Medium articles as time allows.
In addition, I will also be posting content regularly on my website here:
www.faheyconsulting.org
Thank you and keep well!
Sunday, 29 March 2020
Tuesday, 7 April 2015
Spring Into Wellness
April is such a beautiful time of year. The winter weather is an after thought, the birds are out and the greenway is beginning to look lush again. It is hard to believe that with all of the beauty that comes with this month there are still many of us who sit inside our homes like its winter. Kids are in their ‘post school’ video game routine and you are probably still trying to adjust to all the changes that may be coming at your job. Spring break is over and you are anxiously awaiting summer.
However, we sometimes need a reminder that this time of year is the perfect time to focus on physical family wellness. Many trails are newly renovated, pools are open and tennis courts are cleaned up for safe activity. So, you and your family may need to use some of these tips to help break your winter routines to help enhance your physical family wellness.
-Clean the yard together as a family
-Get the shrubs and garden ready for the growing season (allow your children to help)
-Start planning 1-2 family walks/bikes per week after school
-Plan a family picnic at a local park on Saturday or Sunday
-Make weekly trips to the local farmers market
-Enrol your children in a spring recreation sports league
-Join your own adult recreation sports league
-Download some audio books for a ‘personal walk’ once per week
-Join a local fitness facility and/or association (tennis, swimming, etc..)
-Set your alarm 1 hour earlier and get some outdoor exercise in before work
All of these are good ways you can improve you and your family’s physical wellness. It is important for us to remember as adults that we are role models for our families and friends. If we can schedule in physical activity as leaders in our family then our children will also see it’s importance to their lives as you actively participate in physical activity together.
Remember, keep it simple and keep it fun. Turn spring in to the season of making new family memories together through regular physical activity.
Ryan Fahey
Friday, 13 March 2015
Transform Your Morning
The other day I read an interesting post on entrepreneur.com around time management. Most times I scan through articles and take a few mental notes before moving on. However, this one was extraordinary and so I had to print it off for my planning.
Recently, I have been teaching full time, personal training, writing for four different website and mobilizing a small startup from my place of residence in Nova Scotia. All of this has compounded together in the past month causing me to think strategically about my time management. No matter who you are, time management is not an easy thing. If you have kids and a spouse and travel a lot for work, you may want to use this blog as a good reference to schedule your days. If you are single and working two jobs, keep reading…
Since reading this article, I have implemented two things in my day that are changing my life. From family time to work time, everything seems clearer and more effective. Here are a couple strategies I am implementing everyday to balance my life.
- 15 and 30 minute time blocks
First, I have broken my mornings into 15 and 30 minute time blocks. each morning I wake up at 6am. I have ‘Ryan time’ between 6am and 8am (prior to school). So here is my morning.
6-6:15: Check emails and respond
6:15-6:30: Schedule all social media/blog posts for the day
6:30-6:45: Check on year plan, goals, etc. and plan for the day
6:45-7: Read one of my books
7-7:30: Jogging or resistance training session
7:45-8: Prep all food for the day
8:15: arrive at school ready for the day
Now, most of you are probably thinking that I live a boring life. However, the important thing to keep in mind here is this is the plan that works for me given my goals and my priorities in life. I always was a morning person, but this 15 (and sometimes two 15min blocks) minute block strategy has lessened my stress, allowing me to focus during my workouts and while reading. My mind just seems more organized both emotionally and intellectually for the day. Finding a schedule that works for you is important so don’t be afraid to try different things to see what works to keep you balanced with your priorities.
2. Post it notes
The second thing I implemented from this article was the ‘post it note’ strategy. This is basic, easy to implement and very useful. It helps me balance my ambitions and passions! Each night prior to bed I take only one post it note and write down all of the things I want to accomplish the following day during ‘ryan time’. This list is centred around my priorities aside from my regular teaching job. It also allows me to remain focused if the day gets out of hand with tasks and errands. Once all tasks are completed on the post it note, I recycle it and create a new one before bed for the next day. Limiting myself to 5-7 post it notes per week keeps my task management proficient and my effectiveness towards others very high.
Ryan Fahey
Monday, 23 February 2015
Why Bother Blogging?
Good day everyone. Recently some people have been asking me why I bother blogging so much. To be honest, sometimes I find myself asking the same question. But, my life mission is to reduce obesity and to educate others on wellness and everything it encompasses, so why not speak out, right?
However, as people have asked me for different wellness and fitness content on multiple occasions, it has becoming increasingly easy to answer questions and give them resources. For example, the other day someone wanted to know about a corporate wellness program. I pulled up my blog, searched ‘corporate wellness’ and produced two articles and an example of a large Atlantic Canadian leader in corporate wellness. I did this in two minutes.
See, blogging for me is more than just a passion. It is education. My blog has become a resource for tons of professionals across the world. It has also been used on multiple occasions as a teaching tool for student engagement.
I have set my blog up since 2011 to be easily navigated to find information quickly that would otherwise be archived on larger websites. Its a beautiful thing to be able to pull reputable content from your own website which can be relatable to peoples’ needs.
My blog has served as a section of professional development as well. From being a guest blogger for different companies to implementing a new initiative it can serve endless purposes. This can easily become a reality for you as a reader of this post. Why not start your own website, share your educated opinion and be able to use those articles and opinions to help strengthen future opportunities in your life? It sounds like a win/win to me.
Ryan Fahey
Saturday, 14 February 2015
Canadian Olympic Athlete Interiew: Jenna Martin-Evans
For those of you who don't know Jenna Martin-Evans, you should. Jenna is a native of Bridgewater, Nova Scotia. In 2016 she is going to be a two time Canadian Olympic athlete for team Canada. As Jenna prepares for the 2016 Olympic Games in Rio, Brazil, she is seeking sponsorship and people to help her share this journey together. Recently I was able to connect with her to ask her about how she has become such a strong athlete as a track and field runner to be able to run at the highest level. Here is what she had to say:
1. What originally got you interested in track and field?
What originally got me interested in track and field was that it was different from any of the other sport I played. I love team sports, but this was a sport that I could isolate myself with and there's no greater feeling then crossing the line in first. I naturally had a gift that drew me closer to it and when I met my soon to be long-term coach and mentor, Charles Scarrow, it was the beginning of a great venture in which the term "the sky is the limit" became real.
2. Out of all of your experiences, which race stands out the most and why?
It would have to be 2012 Olympic trials in Calgary. It was the 400m final and my last chance/last race to qualify for the Olympic games in London. The night before the 400m final I was up until 3-4:00 a.m. with a fever and the sweats, and the whole morning and afternoon I just could not shake the sickness, even my warm-up was off. But something within me was at peace-I knew it was going to be a good day. Standing behind my blocks waiting for the "On Your Mark" command, an even bigger switch turned my mind, I remember the feeling to this day and I whispered to myself, "I got this". I knew the peace that I felt was the Lord reassuring me that he was with me, and he carried me home to finish in 51.53 seconds to qualify for the Olympic Games.
3. Which race was your hardest race and why?
Honestly cant think of the hardest race, I have certainly had many many races I was not pleased with and questioned myself and my ability. However, that is part of the sport and that is part of anyones life and job. There is going to be hard and challenging times but when you come out in victory it makes it all worth it.
1. What originally got you interested in track and field?
What originally got me interested in track and field was that it was different from any of the other sport I played. I love team sports, but this was a sport that I could isolate myself with and there's no greater feeling then crossing the line in first. I naturally had a gift that drew me closer to it and when I met my soon to be long-term coach and mentor, Charles Scarrow, it was the beginning of a great venture in which the term "the sky is the limit" became real.
2. Out of all of your experiences, which race stands out the most and why?
3. Which race was your hardest race and why?
Honestly cant think of the hardest race, I have certainly had many many races I was not pleased with and questioned myself and my ability. However, that is part of the sport and that is part of anyones life and job. There is going to be hard and challenging times but when you come out in victory it makes it all worth it.
4. What are you most excited about with your training? Why?
I am excited that I am finally healthy. It has been a challenging past couple of years battling injuries and having most question why I am still racing and think my running days are over, but nothing is too hard to overcome with the grace of God. As of now I am still progressing back into shape and hope to be back on top for outdoor season to compete at the Pan American Games in Toronto and World Championships in Beijing this summer.
5. If you could give one piece of advise for aspiring athletes, what would it be?
NEVER give up. There has been so many times in my career where I wanted to stop because I didn't think I could get through an injury or something trying in my life. I was at a point in my life where I didn't even enjoy running anymore-I was border line depressed, but I still got up, thanked God, and kept rolling. You get through the battles and once you do, the other side is even sweeter!
6. What do you think is next for you as a leader and an athlete?
What's next is to continue working hard and smart towards my goals. Also, to continue to reach out to the youth who aspire great things, to hope I can somehow make a difference in one of their lives. It doesn't matter where or what we come from-we can achieve great things.
I am excited to see Jenna run in Rio in 2016. Her authentic leadership is a true example of being a great role model for Canadian youth and children. She is an amazing person, an even better athlete and she has remained true to herself after all her years of running at the highest levels. Anything is possible with a lot of hard work and dedication and Jenna has proven this to be true! Feel free to contact Jenna to follow her journey to Rio @Mz_Can_eh_D_n
Ryan Fahey
Physical & Health Education Specialist
B.A Human Kinetics
CPTN Canada
5. If you could give one piece of advise for aspiring athletes, what would it be?
NEVER give up. There has been so many times in my career where I wanted to stop because I didn't think I could get through an injury or something trying in my life. I was at a point in my life where I didn't even enjoy running anymore-I was border line depressed, but I still got up, thanked God, and kept rolling. You get through the battles and once you do, the other side is even sweeter!
6. What do you think is next for you as a leader and an athlete?
I am excited to see Jenna run in Rio in 2016. Her authentic leadership is a true example of being a great role model for Canadian youth and children. She is an amazing person, an even better athlete and she has remained true to herself after all her years of running at the highest levels. Anything is possible with a lot of hard work and dedication and Jenna has proven this to be true! Feel free to contact Jenna to follow her journey to Rio @Mz_Can_eh_D_n
Ryan Fahey
Physical & Health Education Specialist
B.A Human Kinetics
CPTN Canada
Saturday, 31 January 2015
What Do Wellness & Canada's Best Managed Companies Share?
Two weeks ago I had the privilege of facilitating a wellness workshop for a National restoration company by the name of First On Site or FOS. It holds the prestige of being named one of Canada’s best managed companies for two consecutive years! FOS deals with industrial and home restoration. Long story short, they save your damaged goods from disaster and destruction. After speaking with the Director of Operations for Atlantic Canada, we both agreed that it would be ideal to deliver a high quality health and wellness workshop to their branch managers. As leaders, they understand the importance of living and leading a balanced life. Receiving the opportunity to facilitate this workshop became an early highlight of this new year!
A total of 11 branch managers were in attendance for my workshop. One of the assignments we did as a group was to break down the six domains of wellness and they are:
Physical/Mental
Emotional/Social
Occupational
Intellectual
Each manager examined each domain of wellness to apply to their personal demands, families’ demand and professional demands for each day. They identified which domains may be out of balance for them and their staff and we discussed ways which we could build up those domains and become better balanced leaders in 2015. It was amazing for me to see the learning taking place! One manager made a great point in stating that all domains are interconnected and provide us with a perfect wheel that turns. Essentially if one domain is out of balance, it can lead to a cascade of imbalances across all domains. I was reminded in this moment of why I have such a passion for wellness and why I built this blog. Wellness is dynamic and always trying to be reached. It is about recognizing and implementing daily activities, decisions and routines which take you from living a good life to living your best life.
Later, I took them through their personalized action plan ran them through two case studies and got them to examine what was going wrong in those particular situations found in their case. As I went around the room some of the things I heard were amazing. These managers were critical, methodical and logical to what they barrier to wellness were in their case and how they could set S.M.A.R.T goals to achieve a more balanced life. It was real cool to see and to be a part of that learning!
I just want to say thanks to the FOS atlantic branch managers for a day in which both sides gained knowledge surrounding wellness. The leadership and energy within that company is both charismatic and contagious. It was solace for me to remind these branch managers of their capabilities when living a balanced life.
Ryan Fahey
Thursday, 11 December 2014
@Wellnessrf Takes a Roadtrip
Last month I had the opportunity of a lifetime. I was able to take some time away from work to travel the US and Canada. All I can say is “what a journey!”. I was able to workout for free at a different gym in each state and I also reconnected with old friends in multiple states! There are so many stories from my trip that I could write about and I will do my best to highlight the experience.
I began the trip by leaving the comfort of my friendships in North Carolina (which was extremely difficult). I drove through the smokey mountains into Tennessee and it was then that I realized I was in love with both Tennessee and western North Carolina. While driving to Nashville, I remember seeing the most magnificent sunset I had ever seen. It somehow blinded me, humbled me and made me feel alive all at the same time! I believe Nashville to be one of the greatest cities in the world. The people I ran into while there truly love life, friendships, family and Jesus. Their social wellness is unmeasurable and their emotional happiness is astounding. I recommend Nashville as a destination for any of you who share those same values.
Next up was Kentucky. I was able to stay there with an amazing family who showed me what Kentucky was all about. The people there seem happy and they love the outdoors as much as corvettes and NCAA basketball! They treated me like a king by taking me out to a nice dinner, giving me a warm bed and they made sure that I was comfortable as we shared stories together around the fire. They were some of the nicest Americans I have ever met! From Kentucky came the climb north to Naperville, IL. While there I was able to workout at an awesome gym, meet the coolest spin bike instructor and even learned some strings on my new guitar. Illinois was a fun place with lots to see and do, but I was on a mission to pursue my first spartan race in Wisconsin.
Ryan Fahey
Thursday, 13 November 2014
Danny Macaskill: Challenge Your Comfort Zone
Recently I drove 2,293 miles across much of the USA and Canada. Along the way I made sure to challenge myself in new ways (more to come in my next blog). Before I embarked on my journey, my good friend in Raleigh, NC passed this video along. Now, if this video does not inspire you to travel the world and explore new personal boundaries, I am not sure what would. Enjoy this video and feel free to tweet me @wellnessrf for your commentary!
Ryan Fahey
Physical & Health Education Specialist
B.A Human Kinetics
CPTN Canada
FIS, PTS
Wednesday, 24 September 2014
Spartan Up
This past weekend I was sitting down and thinking about how to challenge myself in a brand new way. As I was reflecting, I noticed one of my friends sent me a link to poem written by a Native American Shawnee Chief Tecumseh which is the poem read at the end of the film, “Act Of Valor”. There is a lot contained in the poem so plenty of ways for a person to gain knowledge or motivation after reading. Even if you only take one or two ideas from Shawnee Chief Tecumseh’s piece that to me is a success so on that note I say thank you Chief Tecumseh!
"So live your life so that the fear of death can never enter your heart. Trouble no one about their religion; respect others in their view, and demand that they respect yours. Love your life, perfect your life, and beautify all things in your life. Seek to make your life long and its purpose in the service of your people. Prepare a noble death song for the day when you go over the great divide.
Always give a word or a sign of salute when meeting or passing a friend, even a stranger, when in a lonely place. Show respect to all people and grovel to none.
When you arise in the morning give thanks for the food and for the joy of living. If you see no reason for giving thanks, the fault lies only in yourself. Abuse no one and no thing, for abuse turns the wise ones to fools and robs the spirit of its vision.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.”
With this poem in mind I decided to challenge myself. Find a way to challenge yourself so that you aren’t weeping, praying for a little more time to live differently down the road. For my challenge, I am training for a Spartan Race in Milwaukee, WI on November 1st. Over the next 5 weeks I will be doing burpies, squats, push-ups, and I’ll also be amping up my cardio training. I already feel refreshed, rejuvenated and excited to see what my mind and body can achieve through this chapter of my training! Feel free to follow me on this journey through my twitter @wellnessrf where you will also find my training and nutrition tips!
Thursday, 4 September 2014
The New Nutrition?
I recently watched a documentary on Netflix entitled: Forks over Knives. I highly recommend you take time to watch it if you haven’t already, before you proceed with the rest of this blog. I also insist you read the book “The China Study” because this blog is a reflection of the research done and in no way do I believe that one way is best for everyone. However, I hope you take my words seriously and form your own opinion on your lifestyle choices after hearing all the info.
A friend and mentor from my home in Canada is the first person who got me intrigued with this topic. The documentary is a comprehensive work based on cellular health in relation to food intake. While I believe most people have heard the saying “you are what you eat,” I do not believe many of them follow sound nutrition intake. Dr. Campbell, one of the lead researches featured in the documentary, uses overwhelming research to show the difference between whole food diets vs. diets rich in animal based protein (meat, dairy products). He highlights the fact that each of us are expected to consume a 20% protein rich diet to sustain health each day. The problem (which is research uncovered) is that having a 20% diet rich in animal based protein promoted many forms of chronic diseases. Dr. Campbell focuses on many diseases that you can learn more about through the film or his book. However, the one that stuck out to me the most was his research on cardiovascular disease. The results he found were staggering. He was able to lower the amount of plaque buildup in the arteries surrounding the heart (which can cause heart attacks) simply by changing a person’s diet.
I don’t look at myself as being a bandwagon thinker and anyone that knows me can vouch for that. I rather function to model and educate on how to live the most rewarding lifestyle and the evidence from the mentioned documentary and book seems to clearly show that a whole food diet rich is plant based protein could be the difference in living a GOOD life until around 55 years of age and living the BEST life at still around 80 years of age. Still, I encourage everyone to do their own research before changing any diet you may be on. We must remember to ask questions when wanting to better ourselves and that includes those who want to become less 'reactionary eaters' to compliment the busy lives we try to manage each day. Please leave any comments below or tweet me @wellnessrf to learn more about personal changes I have made since reading “The China Study.”
Ryan Fahey
Sunday, 13 July 2014
Retail 'Nutrition Experts'
Last week, while on a mission to get a few treats from a supplement store for a visiting friend, I ended up leaving out with a shaker cup, protein and to my surprise a great laugh! I walked up to the counter and noticed this handsome spray tanned man with the tightest polo shirt on that I have ever seen and the words “nutrition expert” printed on the sleeve. This “expert” then asked me if I took a multi vitamin which to me, seemed as if he was trying to break the ice. After I said yes, he attempted to sell me some cheap jug of protein powder and a post workout amino acid powder complex. I quickly informed him that I simply wanted to buy the cup and bar for my friend and that was all. He then proceeded to push a separate drinkable dietary supplement to me which apparently restored glycogen faster than any other macronutrient (food).
Now I don’t know all the answers and especially when it comes to supplements. However, I informed the man that there whole supplement store was virtually a disgrace and that if I wanted advice, I would seek out a Physician, Strength & Conditioning coach, and a certified Dietitian. I told him that pushing low grade micronutrient based products is no joke to the everyday consumer. I informed him that the FDA in America literally has little to no control over the ingredients in some of these products until a slew of people die or become sick from them. I then proceeded to tell him that each of the products in his store have about a 10-15% variance on their Net quantity product panel label which means that any product can have added amounts of ingredients without having to inform the consumer. Lastly, I informed him that many of the serving sizes are comparable to a 300lb man and not a 165lb lean male or a 120 lean female who may have a family history of high cholesterol and heart conditions. The FDA does not distinguish serving quantities as they only want to “know” what the entire product is compiled of. Individual companies are not influenced by the FDA when they make their ‘scientifically’ subject serving sizes. With this in mind the “nutrition expert” listened diligently, handed me my receipt and remained silent as I walked out the door.
This was not the first time this has happened to me or my clients. I have heard numerous stories of clients going into GNC only to come out with 3-4 more products than they bargained for and confused yet excited that they will lose weight and add muscle mass. Give me a break. The worst thing an uneducated person can do if they are trying to positively change their lifestyle is to start by going to a supplement store for advice. Yes, there are some educated and informed people at about 20% of these stores (you got to pay the bills somehow!). But as for the remaining 80% of “nutrition experts” working in supplement stores who really just want to sell you a product and act like a doctor, stay clear! They don’t care if you drop dead tomorrow as long as they can show their managers that people are buying product.
My advice to you would be to first talk to your family Physician, then consult with a Personal Trainer and a Dietitian with specific needs and questions you may have. Do not start the change with $200.00 worth of supplements which may harm you in the long run and which you really know nothing about.
Ryan Fahey
Monday, 23 June 2014
Mud, Sweat, Tears, Blood & Over 20,000 Steps
We started the day corralled in a mud pit where we took a knee to honour the men and women lost to protect all of our freedoms. There was a moment of silence where I was able to reflect on my late track coach who mentored and inspired me to be the man I am today. Once the silence passed we were off to the races with our team. We decided to start at a sustainable pace while pushing each other to keep pounding each mile.
My favourite parts were two particular obstacles. At mile two we had a hay bale climb which had us leap-frogging to the top of the hay bale pyramid followed by us going back down the other side. I loved this because it reminded me of past August days when I worked, gathering hay back home in Nova Scotia. At mile five we hit the “funky monkey” challenge which was a monkey bar locomotor station. If you fell, you fell into 5 feet of muddy water. Falling was not an option for me as a Trainer so after sharing this with my team I did my job, having fun all the while. Mile six was a bit of a struggle for me as I began to cramp up; probably due to the amount of heat exposure and lack of electrolytes. However, my team was there to bail me out and we powered through the second half with strength and stamina. I ended up carrying my buddy on my back around the seventh mile and he returned the favor effectively. We carried that out for about two-hundred yards and credit that to the love & respect we have for our late, great track coach and we fought through in his memory.
Later we endured fifteen foot walls which we had to climb over together. It wasn’t easy but we refused to leave any member behind. As I waited for the remainder of my team to complete the walls I again began to reflect on my coach from back home. He often told us about “the wall” of running. He always referred to “hitting the wall” as the breaking point or maximum threshold point a runner can reach before he or she breaks. He often warned us of how to mentally prepare for those moments and how to run “through the wall” and not to stop. My friend and I both thought it was ironic that the wall was at mile nine.
We man handled the wall, if I do say so myself and decided to sprint the tenth mile together as a symbol of how our coach trained us. What ever happened in the race we were always going to finish strong. We sprinted to the finish and just before the line we waited for our remaining team members to finish together. As we finished I put my hands on my knees and watched my sweat hit the mud and the blood dripping down my right leg. There were no thank you, no bells or whistles, no medals and no money for spending this vacation day pushing my limits. The only thing left to feel was the strengthened bond of my new teammates and how emotional it was to finish this event with my friend who was coached and mentored by the best.
It was truly an emotional challenge from start to finish and I cannot say enough about my team members. I also want to thank Steps Count for sponsoring me to run this race and push my boundaries with their training technology. At mile eight I remember checking the Piezo Pedometer provided for me and it read 18,000 steps right before we reached the walls. That day was truly beneficial for me on all levels. I hope that each one of you physically challenges yourselves this summer in some way! Feel free to follow me @wellnessrf as I start training for the Reebok Spartan Race in October!
Ryan Fahey
Sunday, 1 June 2014
"Education Is The Most Powerful Weapon Which You Can Use To Change The World."
A few weeks ago I blogged about the first four ways to become successful in the 21st century. Well, without further ado, here are the following five tips to living a successful life. I am sure many of you may have more to add to this list as I am not an expert on life however, be willing as am I, to learn and continue your journey to success here:
- Expect Failure, But Don’t Accept It: Too many people give in way too easily. I don’t know what your situation may be but quitting should never be an option. We often learn the most about ourselves through failure. Accept that learning challenge for what it is.
- Rejection Is Protection: My cousin in Virginia reminded me of this a few weeks ago. Whether you are rejected for a new job, a relationship or whatever else you may have felt qualified for, that may be the best result for you in that moment. Therefore don’t be slowed. Always find a positive in what can initially come off as negative in your life. Afterall, rejection could be setting you up for something bigger or better in your future.
- Leadership Is A Thankless Job: I first heard this from a wise professor at StFX University. Don’t expect a thank you after you run your first 5km road race. Don’t expect a thank you when you reach a new personal best at the gym on your squat exercise. Leading a life of excellence and preparedness does not come with many ‘thank yous’.
- Educate: Seek out the resources you need to make sure that you educate yourself to be sharper for when something else arises in the future. This includes listening and learning from those who have been there and done it.
- Go Easy…On Yourself: This last point comes directly from someone who knows. I am the type that has always been harder on myself than may be necessary. Learning not to take shortcomings too personal to the point where it derails us without even knowing is a skill to work on. Being overly hard on yourself can lead to emotional baggage which is superfluous. Be realistic with yourself!
Feel free to comment or tweet me with some ways you have found to be successful in your personal and professional life. I am always up for new ideas, philosophies and perspectives! Thank you for being a part of the wellness network!
Ryan Fahey
Saturday, 10 May 2014
10 Rules To Living In The 21st Century
Recently, life has thrown new obstacles my way. In the midst of these trying times I decided to re-evaluate what is most meaningful in my life and what keeps me functioning at 100%. I find that very often I become distracted by obstacles towards my efforts to get the best results or outcome from my daily actions. What I end up accomplishing is forgetting about what it truly means to live at my full capacity. Success and wealth is a journey, not a destination. I am under the belief that many others can relate to what I’ve just described so let me share the first four of the ten rules I have compiled on how to remain on your road to personal success.
1.The Law Of Rigid Flexibility: With everything you do have flexibility with your plans. Similarly, Charles Darwin said, "Those who are the strongest are not necessarily the ones who survive. It is those who are the most adaptive to change who survive.”
I apply this particular quote to students. All I am saying is that when you are in school everything seems somewhat comfortable. However, when you enter the real world it all could come crashing down if you haven’t obtained a will or even just an option to adapt when change is necessary. There aren’t too many bigger changes from being a student to becoming a professional.
This rule also transfers into every avenue of the human body as well. When we exercise, our bodies adapt to the change (assuming the principles of training and at least one overload workout per week). When we start eating healthier, our bodies adjust either by weight maintenance or weight loss. Health comes down to adaptions to change. I have used this rule of adaption in my own life predominantly since graduation.
2. F & F: Family and friends should remain two of the most important parts of your life. We will be better off with them because we really won’t thrive without them. When we have the right type of people around us they can lift us and help us reach our goals.
3. Suit Up: When fire fighters suit up to fight a fire, they are called in after the fire has started. In 2014 and beyond, we need to hold onto the idea that all days won’t run smoothly. With that being said, we should suit up from the time we wake up and leave our homes in full gear. It is not a matter of ‘if’ a fire arises; it’s just a matter of ‘when’ the fire arises.
In my next blog, I will highlight six other ways to help build on your best life around your personal and professional goals. Feel free to tweet me with how you deal with obstacles in your own life.
Ryan Fahey
Sunday, 20 April 2014
How Do You Spend Your 5am's?
Recently I have been working alongside a Motivational Coach and Dietitian on improving the lives of North Carolinians, starting in the capital city of Raleigh. During my initial few days of working as the Personal Trainer for what has been labeled as the “Fit Family Challenge,” I have been reminded of a great message I heard from Halifax, NS or Canadian author Robin Sharma from his book entitled: The Greatness Guide. He was very interested in the notion of waking up at 5am every day and practicing “deep” personal reflection time before he started each day. Very often I hear people saying that there is never enough time in the day but putting our energy into the time given while focusing on working more efficiently will make way for us to live our lives more effectively.
I agree with Sharma on waking up extra early to spend the first part of the day in deep conversion within yourself regarding what you are doing, where you have been and where you intend to go in all areas of life. Simply described, energy without direction becomes simple displacement. It is comparable to personal mission drift. We need to refine our energy through deep thinking to become more established in setting and reaching our goals and to positively affect the world around us (which is just as important). This could take some time but hopefully you are beginning to see how you should be spending your 5’s.
Spending your 5’s doesn’t necessarily mean that everyone needs to wake up at 5am to reflect; that would be somewhat superfluous. However, if you are a 5:30 person who can get deep thinking done during your early morning run…run! If you are the person who needs to read first thing in the morning or socialize with a buddy at the gym at 5am, do it. Go socialize and go invest in those emotional opportunities for growth. The main point here should be to win the battle of the bed and wake up early to invest in yourself before the day unfolds. The point of this blog is not to tell you that if you wake up at 6, 7, or even 8 am that you will not be emotionally wealthy or professionally focused. The purpose of this blog is to remind you that some of the best opportunities for growth come during our thinking time away from our work and maybe even away from each other. Some of the greatest leaders of our generation spend most of their time in solitude. Reflection becomes knowledge and strength.
Now, you’re probably questioning how you spend you 5’s or how you spend your morning time in general. I challenge you to wake up 30 minutes earlier, find something that gives you opportunities to reflect and dabble in those activities for a few weeks. The commitments of life and stress can wait for the sunrise. Get up early and work on your emotional wellness before life throws chaos at you. I guarantee you will think and feel better.
One of the “Fit Family Challenge” contestants is doing just that. She is starting to ‘rethink’ how she spends her 5’s to move forward with her fitness, nutrition and overall motivation. Tweet me @wellnessrf and tell me how you spend your 5's.
Ryan Fahey
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